Have I Found Ms. Right?
Q: Dear Agnes,
I recently met a wonderful woman, and I have fallen head over heels in love with her. I think she may be Ms. Right, but I don't know. I want to marry her, but how can I be sure she is my ideal1 partner? Yong-Il, Seoul, Korea
A: Dear Yong-Il,
Choosing your life partner is a decision that requires very careful thought. Getting married is something you do not want to take lightly.2 Divorce rates around the world are increasing every year, and in some countries they are now as high as 50 percent! If you don't want to end up3 divorced and heart-broken, take my advice and follow these five rules to help you choose your perfect partner.
First of all, you and your partner should be compatible. You need to know that you share a common purpose in life. You and your partner should have similar goals and ambitions that you can work toward achieving throughout your married life. It will be difficult to keep your marriage together if your partner wants to stay at home and raise a large family, but you want to travel the world instead of having children. Find out what your intended4 spouse's life goals are long before you tie the knot!5
Next, ask yourself this question: Is my partner a person with whom I can share my innermost6 thoughts and feelings? In other words, can you be completely honest and open with this person, or do you sometimes feel shy and uncomfortable telling her how you feel? If your situation is the former, then you have probably found your true love. If, however, it is the latter, take your time before you make plans to walk down the aisle7 with this person.
Third, only marry someone who has qualities you admire. If you respect people who work hard, you should marry someone who is hard-working, not someone who is lazy or too easy-going.
Fourth, marry a person who is polite and kind to others; they will be polite and kind to you. In my experience, you can learn a lot about the true nature of a person by watching how he or she treats other people. & A person who is kind and giving to family and friends will be kind and giving toward you. Someone who has good manners and is polite and respectful toward others will show you the same consideration.8 Watch how your partner treats people she does not have to be nice to such as waiters, taxi drivers, or store clerks. Does your partner pay attention to so how you and others feel, or does she have a self-centered nature?
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